Obituary
It is with profound sadness that I share the passing of my Dad, Thomas Spengler Weston, beloved husband, father, grandfather, and esteemed professor, who left this world on December 3, 2025, after a courageous battle with cancer. Born on March 14, 1944, in Abilene, Texas, Dad lived a life filled with love, intellect, and a commitment to social justice that left an indelible mark on everyone he encountered.
Dad was the first son of David Weston and Alta Mae Weston. He grew up in a nurturing environment that fostered his love for learning and community service. His thirst for knowledge led him to the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT), where he earned both his Bachelor of Science and PhD, laying the groundwork for a distinguished academic career.
For 45 years, Dad dedicated himself to the field of philosophy as a professor at San Diego State University. His students described him not only as a knowledgeable mentor but also as a kind and generous soul who brought a unique sense of humor and goofiness to the classroom. He had a remarkable ability to challenge his students to think critically while making them feel valued and understood.
My dad married my mom, Renee, in 1977 and they spent the next 48 years building a life filled with joy and laughter. Together, they raised three daughters: myself, my sisters Vanessa, and Cathy, and my brothers David and Tri. Dad's legacy continues through his grandchildren: Zachary, Katie, Christopher, Elizabeth, Connor, Mateo, Lucille, and Fernando. Each of them carried a piece of his spirit, and he reveled in their accomplishments and the joy they brought to his life.
A passionate advocate for social justice, Dad devoted much of his time to various organizations that aimed to uplift and empower those in need. He believed in the power of community and worked tirelessly to make the world a better place. His love for reading and music enriched his life and provided a source of inspiration that he shared with his family and friends.
Dad was a friend to many and a guiding light for those who sought his wisdom and kindness. In honor of his passion for music, our family requests that donations be made to San Diego's Jazz 88.3 FM - KSDS, a local non-profit station which broadcasts out of San Diego City College.
A memorial service will be held on Sunday, February 8, 2026, at 2:00 PM at Marina Village - Marine Room, 1936 Quivira Way, San Diego, CA 92109. Please RSVP to Mai Weston at (619) 787-4700 or maiweston@yahoo.com.
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